5 Things Parents of Autistic Teens Should Know About the Transition to College

For many parents, watching their teenager prepare for college is both exciting and overwhelming. For parents of Autistic teens, the transition can feel even more complex: new environments, social dynamics, academic expectations, and independence all come into play at once.

The good news? With the right preparation and support, Autistic teens can not only succeed in college, but thrive.

Here are five key things parents should know as they help their teen take this next step:

1. College is a new social landscape

Friendships and social cues often shift dramatically in a college setting. Your teen may need guidance on how to build new connections, join groups, and manage social expectations. Coaching can help them practice strategies before they arrive on campus.

2. Executive functioning becomes critical

From managing coursework to organizing schedules, executive functioning skills are put to the test in college. Many Autistic teens benefit from tools, routines, and accountability check-ins to help them stay on track academically.

3. Disability services are available — but limited

Most colleges have disability resource centers, but the level of support varies widely. It’s important to help your teen learn how to self-advocate and ask for accommodations — rather than relying on parents to manage these requests. It’s also important to understand what types of accommodations are available, and which ones will have the strongest positive impact on your child.

4. Independence doesn’t happen overnight

Living away from home can be exciting and challenging. Some teens need extra coaching around daily routines, self-care, and balancing independence with asking for help. Neurodivergent teens can struggle with

5. Parents need support, too

Letting go is hard. Parents often wonder how much to step in and how much to step back. Coaching isn’t just for teens — it’s also for parents who want strategies to support their teen while respecting their growing independence.

Final Thoughts

The college transition doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right guidance, autistic teens can build the skills, confidence, and independence they need to thrive — both in and out of the classroom.

If you’re preparing your teen for this exciting next chapter, I offer coaching for teens and parents to help make the transition smoother.